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Sleep is a good thing, so why do I neglect it?
Published on July 30, 2004 By lifehappens In Life Journals
So I am sitting up at 11 am feeling as though it is 6 am....no. That's not the way to put it. I'm sitting here feeeling sluggish, lazy and unable( or maybe just unwilling) to move. This is not a usual state of being for me...even at 6 months pregnant.

I learned at a young age that sleep is good. Sleep is important. One of the most important things I will do all day. Why? For the simple reason that I get nothing done if I am tired. Conversely, with a decent 8 hours of sleep, I often accomplish more than thought humanly possible by 9 am.

So why after 26 years of knowing the incredible value of sleep, do I allow myself to be sucked back into my friend's personnal madness. Here is a wonderful person who stays up until three or four in the morning finishing projects or whatever. Then she is so exhausted, her next day is spent sleeping till noon or two and the whole cycle starts over again. I know this is how she functions, although I can't imagine how she drags herself to work after an all nighter.

I have seen it happen and most of the time, I avoid doing this. I just go home. or crash on the couch. But, this time we are at my house. I'm not uncomfortable with the idea of crashing while she's there. Even though the logic portion of my mind realized the consequenses of my actions and I knew that I could crash or that she would leave if I asked, I was enjoying the adult company......and at 3 am when we finally went to sleep, I knew in my mind that the next day would be shot.

So here it is, the next day. I'm at the tired point where I can move, but not really accomplish anything. I have a 2 year old so I couldn't sleep past 7:15 and I can't take a nap....and even if i could I HATE TO DO THAT. It feels like I am wasting the day, squandering the time I should be using in some sort of productive manner. *Sigh*

I know that when alcohol is involved, people tend to do things they regret, but what about the other little stupid habbits that you can't break...and then you kick yourself for the next day? I'm curious whether other people allow themselves to do things that they KNOW they will regret, but keep doing it anyway. So tell me your dirty little secret....

Comments
on Jul 30, 2004
Yeah, same thing here.

I often read an engrossing book in night, thinking that I will just read a chapter or so.

Then I cant put it down, goes to the next chapter and so on, sometimes finishing the whole book in one go.

All these, realizing in the back of my mind that next day I must get up early and do important work.

Same goes with beer guzzling sessions too.

or fantasizing about me with a bevy of pretty girls on a desolate island,mmm.

Do you too?
on Jul 30, 2004
Ouch, yes. Books tend to keep me up much, much longer than I should......I should grow up and be responsible, but it's just more fun right now to stay up late and read.....
on Jul 30, 2004
I know that when alcohol is involved, people tend to do things they regret,

Please tell me you weren't drinking while 6 months pregnant. Hopefully I read that wrong.

Anyway~ I have the same problem. My hubby is a night owl and I really like to spend time with him, but I need my sleep. I feel like I hate to choose between wasting a day sleeping or staying up late with him.
on Jul 31, 2004
No, no, no. Alcohol was not involved.

I was just making that statement to eliminate the drinking sories. I was more interested in whether people did other mildly stupid things.

I think drinking (alcohol) or smoking when you are pregnant should be criminal. Maybe I'll blog about that....
on Jul 31, 2004
I do the same thing especially when my husband is gone. I know I should go to bed but stay up anyway. A lot of the time its just because I need a few hours of peace and quiet after the kids go to bed. But I have been known to "rest my eyes" when the kids take their nap the next day. Other things I do that I know I shouldn't - drink way too much Dr. Pepper and procrastinate about everything, laundry, cleaning house, paying bills, preparing for workshops etc. the list goes on and on.